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11 reasons why I love babysitting as a grown-up

BabysittingI still remember the feel of my first £20 note which was payment for babysitting as a teenager – £20! We were ferried to our parents’ friends’ houses and back, we got to play with the children, stay up late legitimately and, if we were lucky, they’d even have a few good videos in their original plastic boxes for us to watch.

Now I’m part of a babysitting circle in the village I’ve been enjoying babysitting all over again – but for rather different reasons (and with no crisp £20s in sight). This is a great system, though. It’s all token-based and was set up by my rather clever friend. So now we can babysit and in turn get a sitter ourselves for free.

Here’s why I’ve been enjoying babysitting as a grown-up:

  1. Somehow it’s less stressful if someone else’s child wakes up rather than your own
  2. And generally they don’t – they’re usually tucked up in bed fast asleep and cosy
  3. You get to choose what you watch on TV, whether you’re in the mood for Friends re-runs or an ITV drama (just nothing too scary for me!)
  4. Other people’s recorded films are always so much better than yours
  5. And other people’s snacks are always superior – posher crisps and double chocolate cookies. Mmmm
  6. Not to mention fruit teas! I rarely drink them at home but I love a lemon, ginger and honey infusion at someone else’s house
  7. I can sit in front of the TV on my laptop and do a bit of work or blog or just Google random 80s children’s TV (my husband’s not a fan of me doing this which is probably fair enough)
  8. It’s nice to sit on someone else’s comfortable sofa for a change
  9. They might even have a magazine or two lying around and I might even have a chance to flick through the pages
  10. I’ve also met lots of new people through our babysitting circle and everyone’s local to us
  11. And best of all, you get the chance to earn tokens for your own night out – we’re even threatening a cinema trip one of these days…

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Waiting, waiting – six ways to cope with being overdue

Pregnant overdueSecond babies – they’re never as late as first ones, are they? That seemed to be the general consensus. That and how quickly it could all happen once it started (music to my ears since my first experience was six days of pre-labour contractions). No one seemed to disagree. That is until my last midwife appointment, when she asked how late my first was (10 days). She replied ‘get ready for some waiting – usually the second follows the same pattern’.

And only then it dawned on me – of course it could do. I could still be waiting another week. Or even longer! And, like with so many life events, we have pretty much no control over when it’s going to start.

So here I am, 4 days over and trying not to dwell (despite the blog post). I’m even enjoying trialling Continue reading